How to comfort a person living with dementia in case of repetitive behaviours?

Let’s look at this example

Jassim  is taking care of his father Mostafa, because his mother, the main carer, is out of the house for a few hours. All seems fine, although Jassim  notices that his father is rather tense because Jassim ’s mother is not there.

Jassim  and Mostafa eat Lunch together. Sometime after finishing Lunch, Mostafa asks “When is Lunch?” and, “What are we having for Lunch?” Jassim  does not think much of it at first. Then, again, a few minutes later, Mostafa asks “When is Lunch?”, “What are we having for Lunch?”, and “Where is your mother?” Mostafa repeats these questions again and again.

Jassim  is confused about why Mostafa is doing this and gets more and more worried about his father. Jassim  continues to answer the questions, but gets a bit upset and raises his voice. Jassim  responds, loudly and is annoyed, “I have already answered these questions, why do you keep asking?"
1. Check your understanding
Repeating questions.

What would you recommend to Jasim ?
Please select all correct responses.







2.Activity
Let’s look at your own situation
It is important to apply what you have learned to your own situation. The spaces below are for you, like a diary.
Now look back at the examples that you identified in the previous activity. Choose the repetitive behaviour that is the most stressful to the person that you care for, or to yourself, and list it below.




What could you do to help reduce this behaviour?




How could you change your response to this behaviour?